Yes, We're Still Here

Apologies are once again in order as we have been extremely lax in keeping this thing updated lately.  But you know how it goes - you get caught up in everyday life things like going to work, caring for two boys, vegging out in front of Big Bang Theory episodes, gardening, drumming, hockey, soccer, consuming copious amounts of Starbucks, reading Barron's - and the next thing you know months have gone by with nary a word blogged.

Once again - the requisite promise that pictures will be forthcoming.

And with that, on to the few newsworthy events of the last couple of months...

In the waning days of summer, we made a trip out to Remlinger Farms (just outside of Carnation).  Dina had bought a Living Social coupon for this.  It is essentially a huge farm with lots of things for families to do such as children's midway rides, pony rides, a small passenger train, food, etc.  We (of course) rode the train. The boys also enjoyed a 'canoe ride', a small kinda-Ferris-wheel ride, and their first pony rides.

We also went to the coast to Ocean Shores.  Dina's uncle's family owns a small cabin out there that he lets family members use.  Dina's brother booked a weekend and invited all of us to join them.  This was the first time at the ocean for the boys as well as myself.  (Yes - I've lived here for almost 1/2 my life now and this was my first time to the ocean - go figure (Puget Sound is technically not the ocean)).  Jonathan and Ethan both really enjoyed playing in the sand, walking along the shore/water, and playing with their cousin Amanda.  It was *extremely* relaxing to just sit on the beach and do *nothing* and simply listen to the roar of the ocean.

Ethan broke his collarbone back in September.  He was at speech therapy when it happened.  At their offices, they conduct various kinds of therapy for children.  As such, they have quite an assortment of different kinds of equipment that, from a child's point of view, appears like a huge playground of toys, climbing equipment, etc.

During speech therapy, Ethan is allowed from time to time to play on various equipment (like a ball pit, say). This particular week, he wanted to try out a hammock.  Since Jonathan's school schedule has changed to a PM class, he has to go to Ethan's appointment as well, as it is scheduled in the mornings.  Jonathan wanted to also try out the hammock and when Ethan's therapist went to go help Jonathan get on, Ethan fell off.  Now, the fall itself was only about 2-3 feet.  It was most likely the way he landed that broke his collarbone.  As was related to me from Dina, he was inconsolable (whereas he normally recovers after little accidents after only a few minutes) and kept crying/whimpering for the next hour as well as favoring that arm.  She then took him to the ER where an x-ray revealed the true nature of the injury.

Amazingly, all they did was put his arm in a sling and give him pain medication.  Apparently at this age, even a break like that will simply heal on it's own after 6-8 weeks.  No surgery, no cast, no splint - just a sling to immobilize the arm.

Ethan has had 2 successive x-rays and as of now it has healed quite nicely and he is cleared for all activities.

In other family news, Dina's mom has just had hip replacement surgery.  She is home now recuperating.

Jonathan continues with ice skating, soccer, and Karate (now having earned 4 black stripes on his belt).  Ethan is still in Gymboree.  Both are now in school (Jonathan is in 1/2 day PM kindergarten 4 days a week and Ethan is in 1/2 day PM preschool for 2 days a week).

Halloween is just around the corner and as such, trips to the pumpkin patch are requisite.  Ethan already had his trip at school last week and Jonathan will have his just a few days before Halloween.  Pictures will be posted - one day.

- bob

Happy Birthday Ethan!

8/14/12 we celebrated Ethan's 3rd birthday.  It's almost hard to believe that only 3  years have gone by given how much the little guy has been through. 

I took the day off from work and Ethan's birthday was spent first going to a park in the morning to a play date and then to Chuck E Cheese later in the day for dinner and a lot of play time!  We kept it to just a family affair inviting just grandparents and cousins (with parents in tow, of course). 

Ethan playing at Chuck E Cheese

Jonathan on one of the rides. 

Both boys posing with Chuck E Cheese

Ethan as Mario Andretti

Both boys claiming prizes after redeeming their tickets

Opening presents with Jonathan and cousin Amanda

- bob

To Sleep, Perchance To Dream

Ethan had a series of regular follow up appointments at Children's yesterday (8/6/12).

We got the results from his sleep study and the results were shockingly good!  I almost asked if they had accidentally switched the results with another child - they were so unexpectedly good.  Normally, Ethan's results from sleep studies are not that good - but the doctors always throw in the caveat - but for *him* this is normal, so they generally are not very concerned.  Today - his results were actually *really* normal.  Not just "normal for him".  "Normal" is about 4-5 apnea episodes per hour for children.  Ethan had approximately 1 per hour. 

He was scheduled for a(nother) hearing screen but his ENT examined him first and found he had fluid in his ears - a left over from the cold he just got over last week - so she scrubbed the hearing screen and will reschedule it for 3 months from now. 

He was also tested at Children's by a speech pathologist.  She was also amazed at his progress since she last tested him (back in about January).  He is not quite ready to be discharged from speech therapy as he still has trouble with the k sounds and hard g sounds but she did remark on just how much more she understood of what he said and how far he as progressed. 

His main craniofacial pediatrician saw him and also was so pleased with his progress.  He examined his spine and saw no indications that there might be problems (craniofacial microsomia can also affect the spine however any diagnosis of any problems can't be made until the child is older and bones calcify more).  He will have his spine X-rayed the next time we are in to get a definitive look.  We are still tracking for jaw surgery possibly at age 7-8 and early jaw surgery is now off the table again.  So it was a very good day at Children's.  (As an aside, we were also informed that Ethan is getting to the age where we will start to see the dentists/oral surgeons at Children's as we begin charting the course towards his eventual jaw surgery - we might start seeing them at our next appointments in early 2013).



From the 'other news' department desk:
Ethan is registered for preschool this coming September.  He will be attending the same school as Jonathan but in his age group, he will only be going 2 days a week for 2.5 hours/day.  Ethan will be starting school one year earlier than Jonathan.  We hemmed and hawed on this idea for quite a while - but he seemed so ready for school that we felt we didn't want to hold him back.  We actually asked Ethan if he wanted to go to school like his big brother and he seemed to be very enthusiastic about it and was very happy when we told him that he was indeed going to be going to school later in the year. 

In other sports news... 

Jonathan passed Basic Level 1 in ice skating.  So if he wants to continue (and he said he does), it's on to the next level. 

I also saw Jonathan's swimming class.  This has been the first time in about a month or two that I've seen his swim class.  He's made a *lot* of progress since I last saw him.  He's putting his face/head in the water and he's starting to learn the basic front crawl. 

Also - Jonathan earned his 2nd black stripe on his white belt in Karate class just this last Saturday. 

- bob

An Overdue Checkin

We have been very lackadaisical about updating this blog.  It has been a pretty busy spring/summer thus far.  A quick update - I'm sure more detailed follow up posts with pictures will be forthcoming (famous last words). 

Jonathan has been very busy since school ended for the year back in May.  Since then he has been taking swimming, ice skating, and Karate lessons.  We signed him up for these classes through the City of Kirkland Parks Department.  He is really enjoying all three and when his Karate classes ended, we asked him if he wanted to continue and he gave a most definite 'yes' so we signed him up at the dojo for 'real' classes.  In fact, just this last weekend (7/7/12) he earned his first black strip on his white belt! 

He really enjoys his ice skating as well.  He is much more confident now on skates than when he first started the lessons.  I initially signed up for classes as well for the first session thinking he might be more comfortable knowing I was on the ice with him (though elsewhere on the rink in my own class).  By the time the lessons for the first session were ending, I don't think it mattered to him so we only signed him up (and not myself).  (I might add - you might wonder what I could learn in an skating class since I play ice hockey - well - my backwards crossovers needed a lot of work and I actually got a lot of improvement on them in the eight sessions so it wasn't money wasted). 

Jonathan is much more comfortable in the water now as well.  He used to have an aversion to even getting his face wet.  He can now dunk his head under water.  He passed the first level for pre-school and is now in level 2.  Most likely we will skip one session of swimming classes this summer just to give him a break (swimming classes are 4 days a week for 2 weeks and there is no break between sessions and he is currently in session 3).  We'll sign him up for the last session later in the summer. 

In all this, you may wonder what Ethan has been up to.  Unfortunately, he is too young to be signed up for any of these classes (which he keeps asking to participate in).  Ethan is still doing Gymboree every week and he really loves it.  When we practice Jonathan's Karate at home, Ethan is every enthusiastic to join in - and given he's only 2 1/2, he's pretty good!  Ethan is still continuing with his speech therapy and it really shows.  He is talking almost non-stop, his vocabulary has exploded, and he enunciates much, much better.  His snoring has, unfortunately, gotten worse since his tonsillectomy.  It is still far better than pre-surgery, but not as good as it was immediately post-surgery.  He just had a regularly schedule sleep study follow-up just this last weekend (the night of 7/6/12).  Hopefully the results will not be too bad. 

Dina has been keeping busy this summer starting a vegetable garden in the back yard.  While I can't stand to be doing anything remotely related to gardening or lawn maintenance (one wonders why I even bought a house in the first place instead of a condo), Dina really enjoys.it.  She is growing beans, tomatoes, pumpkins, kale, and a host of other things I cannot keep track of. 

I, on the other hand, have been pretty geeked out these last few weeks trying to catch up/brush up on my particle physics and some of my calculus and matrix algebra (I told you it was geeky).  I've also spent some time trying to improve my bass playing skills learning various parts from songs from the movie 'That Thing You Do' and various (easy) parts from various Rush songs (Caravan, Double Agent, and BU2B, specifically). 

- bob

Leading Worship

I had the opportunity and priviledge of leading worship again today at church. This was the third time that I lead worship and I think today was the best experience so far. Kevin Brooks played guitar, Tina played the piano, Bob played the drums and bass, Kevin Williams sang, LeAnne did words, Jaxon was on sound (his first time alone), and of course I sang too. This time I even did a small solo. I'm branching out! I lead because Pastor Mark and Mary Beth are on vacation to celebrate their 30th wedding anniversary in Hawaii. Lucky! We also had Steve Wilkinson one of our missionaries in the Philippines come and speak today. It was a great day at church. Jonathan even did a little dance in front of the congregation during our first song...he usually sits nicely on the first pew waiting to be excused for Children's Church, but I think the Lord came into his heart and made him feel like dancing today :)

I also went and played the second half of my soccer game today since the game started at 11:15am, which is during church. Luckily the game was right down the street from church. I scored my 14th goal of the year between 2 teams. I am on the way to score a record number of goals this year. Even if I don't score any more this year, it will still have been a great year for soccer!


-Dina

Talking To Jonathan's Class About Facial Differences

Today was the Muscular Distrophy Hop A Thon at Jonathan's school. Throughout the week the children have been learning about people with differences. Earlier in the week, someone came to talk to the kids about people in wheelchairs and other ways in which people are different including hair color and eye color. The message was that God makes everyone different in some way, but that means everyone is special in their own way. Today, I got to talk to Jonathan's class about people with facial differences. Some of Jonathan's friends have been asking about the scar on Ethan's face, so today I showed the children pictures of when Ethan was born, showed them what Ethan looks like now in real life since he was there with me and even about how some people have differences in eating. I brought a feeding tube so kids could see one in real life and then I let them ask questions. I love how children think and I love that they were asking questions to show me that they were really listening and taking in what I said. Many of the questions centered around how the feeding tube goes to the tummy.

During the talk, Ethan went to the back of the class where Miss Call was sitting and sat in her lap. I thought for sure he would have went and played with the toys.

Then the kids participated in the Hop A Thon for the MDA. The kids waited for the whole school to gather and then they were asked to get in a circle and they all hopped.

Getting Ready

Jumpy Jump. Having Fun!

Getting His Hop A Thon Certificate

My "Cake"

Making A Windsock

Lunch!

Hugs For Teacher Kerri

Hugs For Miss Call

After the Hop A Thon, Ethan and I stuck around for center time in Miss Call's class. Jonathan had a great time building his tower and doing art. Ethan got to play in the dramatic play area with the food and the kitchen.

Another great part of the day is the impact the Jonathan's teachers have had not only on Jonathan, but Ethan loves the teachers too. He gave Teacher Kerri, Jonathan's teacher from last year a hug and Miss Call a hug before we left. He doesn't give hugs to just anybody!

-Dina

Happy Easter

This year, I thought it might be fun to go to some community Easter Egg Hunts. We started off going to the city of Redmond for their hunt. My mom came with the boys and I since Bob had to go down to a friend's church and rehearse for their worship service that he was going to be a guest drummer at on Easter Service. When we got there, the boys' age groups were split up. There were a mass amount of people. I took Ethan to his field and mom took Jonathan to his field. The hunt kicked off with the mayor, fire chief, and the Easter bunny in a fire truck lift above the big field. They dropped some eggs and the hunt was on. Ethan started crying right before the start and the field filled up quickly. He stood over 3 eggs and refused to pick them up. He didn't like the big crowd. I always said I wouldn't be one of those parents who picked up eggs for their kids, but since he was standing over 3, I picked them up, put them in his basket, and walked away. He was done and all the eggs were probably taken by that point anyways. It was a madhouse. I heard one parent tell their kid "there were a lot more people here then last year". I saw some kids walking out with empty baskets. That's so sad. Jonathan did pretty well on his lawn and got 11 eggs. We might not do this one again next year since it was just too crowded.

The younger crowd

We left Redmond City Hall and drove over the Evergreen Hospital. Across the street is their hospice center where they hold their egg hunt for staff and volunteers. Since I am on a parent advisory board, I can attend. I took the boys last year and it was really fun so this year we decided to go again. They go all out with big eggs and big candy like whopper cartons, egg gum, etc. all over the lawn. Again, Jonathan and Ethan were in different age groups. I took Ethan and mom took Jonathan. At Ethan's level, one parent could go out with their child. At Jonathan's age, no adults were allowed to go out. Ethan and I were right in the front since we got there early. Mom said that Jonathan was in the front too, but as time went by, parents were pushing their kids ahead of Jonathan. She was getting irritated and finally pushed Jonathan back up to the front; that was her telling of the situation anyways. I should be surprised since some cities cancelled their egg hunts due to aggressive parents and someone else told me they saw on the news that some places had video of parents telling their kids to push other kids out of the way. Come on people! Really!!!! Anyways, Ethan went right out and started picking up everything he could. He didn't want the candy though, only the eggs. Fine with me. Jonathan apparently did the same thing. I brought a plastic bag with us since the basket filled up quickly. The boys did really good at this hunt, getting a lot of fun stuff and they even quit early. They both decided they were done even though there was still stuff left to pick up.

The lawn at the Evergreen hunt

Ethan picking up his eggs

Jonathan filled up his basket and decided he was done

When we got home, the boys waited for daddy to get home and then opened up all of their eggs so he could see what they got. Grandpa also came over and was able to share in the egg opening. He spent most of the day hanging out with us too.

Ethan opening his eggs

Jonathan and his eggs

The boys' Easter baskets, although I bought big eggs to put the stuff in

This was the first year we decided to do Easter baskets for the boys. I bought these big eggs and some grass at the after Easter sale at Michaels last year and used those as the baskets. There were Junior Mints, Gymboree CDs, Gymboree shapes, and die cast Cars 2 figures. It was a big hit!

The boys with grandpa

After Easter Sunday service, we also had the annual Easter Egg Hunt. It was outside behind the church since it was a nice sunny day.

Getting ready

Ethan going to town

He has mastered the egg hunt

Jonathan racing for eggs

He has mastered the hunt and was less picky about which eggs or colors he picked up.

Hug from Ellen

After church, the boys and I stopped at the City of Kirkland's egg hunt at Peter Kirk Park. Again, the boys were split up into different age groups, but I brought Ethan to the over 4 section since I was by myself. His section was supposed to be on the playground; the older section was on the baseball field. When we arrived, we were in the front line. By the time the hunt started, we were only in the second row and that was with me continually trying to stay ahead of the line. This egg hunt consisted of little chocolate eggs all over the lawn and not plastic eggs. To keep the crowd entertained, the Easter Bunny and an Easter Duck were walking around taking pictures with kids. The boys were able to get some chocolate eggs and picked me some dandelions.

Jonathan wearing his Easter basket while we waited for the hunt

Ethan trying to wear his Easter basket

The boys and the Easter Duck...Big Foster

In the afternoon, we went over to mom's house for an Easter egg hunt and dinner. Bob joined us. I brought some eggs and Tayla brought some eggs too. Before the hunt, Tayla brought a craft to do that was a bunny mask to decorate. My family, Ryan's family, Dad and Joy, and Mom were there for the egg hunt. The hunt took place in the backyard.

Ready, Set, Go!

Jonathan having a great time

Grandpa was watching

Ethan was an old pro

Here Ethan

After the hunt, the boys and AJ opened all their eggs. Oma Joy helped Ethan open all of his. Everyone had a lot of fun. After we opened all the eggs, Dad and Joy left to go back to Melissa's house. It was wonderful having them with us for a while on Easter to see the kids do their hunt.

Opening eggs

Help from Oma Joy

Uncle Ryan brought the egg dying kit and Jonathan was really into coloring eggs. This was the first year he really wanted to do it. He and Uncle Ryan colored eggs together.

Coloring eggs

Later in the evening, Andy, Erin, and Ben showed up after being in Bellingham. We ate dessert and the kids got to play together for a little while.

Ben

Amanda went to bed and then the boys were left. Eventually, Jonathan and Ethan fell asleep. They were so tired. The pretty much slept for the rest of the night, even when we got them in the car and took them home.

Ben looking at Ethan sleeping

Tired out Jonathan

The next day, the boys opened their eggs from the church egg hunt. They ended up each getting a special cross egg that they were supposed to bring back the next week for a prize which turned out to be bubbles and a box of chocolate eggs.

Opening the last of the eggs

The special cross eggs

What a fun and full Easter we had this year. The boys were really into the Easter egg hunts and Jonathan was a lot less picky then he has been in the past. Holidays just keep getting more fun and eventful every year.

-Dina