Monday, October 31, 2011

Halloween Fun

This year's Halloween was a lot of fun filled with pumpkins, parties, costumes, and candy. Grandma bought the boys some pumpkins starters from Moorlands and we planted them back in the spring. We got some good pumpkins. The main ones were a round one and one that is peanut shaped. We carved the round one and the boys painted their pumpkins from the pumpkin patch from Jonathan's class field trip. Each boy got a medium sized round pumpkin and a smaller round pumpkin, similar to the small gourd pumpkins we get every year.

This was our first year carving a real pumpkin. I bought a carving kit and patterns. We covered the kitchen floor with plastic and the boys got to paint their own pumpkins while mommy and daddy carved the big pumpkin. When I harvested the pumpkin, I noticed that the slugs started to get it so that spot became the nose of our Jack-O-Lantern. Once it was carved, the boys helped scrape out the seeds. It was a great sensory activity and of course Ethan was all over that, although Jonathan liked doing it too.
Getting ready to decorate pumpkins
Pumpkins we grew in our garden
Daddy carving the pumpkin
Jonathan painting his pumpkins
Ethan painting his pumpkins
Great sharing between brothers!
Continuing the fun painting pictures. Brushes are spoons with papertowels taped to the end. They did the job.
Mommy taking a turn carving the pumpkin. The pumpkin kit carving knife worked well, but seemed very delicate.
Jonathan and Mommy
Jonathan's little pumpkin has a face
The other side
Ethan's pumpkin
Jonathan's other pumpkin has a face
The boys helping to clean out the pumpkin guts
Getting down and dirty. He usually doesn't like to get his hands dirty.
The finished product




Picture of the boys finished mess. They even painted their cars from the Children's Hospital playroom.

The Suda Halloween party was at Auntie Georgia's party room at her condo complex. Just about everyone was there. As always, there were some great and imaginative costumes. I was a geisha, Bob was Bruce Lee, Jonathan chose to be Curious George and Ethan wanted to be Thomas. I took Jonathan to Party City and he personally picked Curious George. Of course when I went to get one, they were out. I found the last one at the Crossroads store and it was even on sale. The fit was a little snug, but it was the only one so we made due. Ethan said he wanted to be Thomas, which was nice because that is what Jonathan was last year so we just let Ethan wear that costume. It was a little big, but it worked out.
Denny and Marcia from the Christmas Story
Family picture
The siblings
Ethan and Uncle Ryan having a conversation while eating dinner
Auntie Julie, Auntie Georgia, and Kay
Andy, Erin, and Ben. Andy is a "cereal" killer :)
The boys reading a story with Grandma
Ryan, Tayla, and AJ
Ethan and Ben. Ben was touching Ethan and Ethan just sat there and took it. He didn't get upset.
Silly Cousins!
Jonathan and Uncle Andy having a converstion. I wonder what they were talking about.


All the cousins at the party. This was the best picture of the bunch!

We also attended a church harvest party that included food and trick or treating door to door downstairs. The boys had fun and this was their first chance to practice actually knocking and saying "trick or treat". Ethan was able to say it too and did a pretty good job. I had to make sure they were only taking one thing and putting it in their baskets.

Eating dinner and cupcakes. Ethan was very happy to eat his cupcake. So cute!
Lining up for the costume contest
Lightning McQueen even showed up. That is a handmade car with real lights. So creative. Ethan is saying, "Look. Lightning Mommy!"

LeAnne's M&M candy holder. The boys really liked it.

On Halloween, we met Grandpa, Ryan, Tayla, and AJ at Bellevue Square Mall to trick or treat store to store. We made the mistake of starting by the Disney Store and it was a zoo. I was worried that Dad, Ry and Tay were a little overwhelmed by the amount of people. There was a complete traffic jam at the Disney Store and all the way down the aisle. There were so many people and as usual, a lot of chaos. Parents and kids pushing and no organization. I will never understand those parents who let their kids cut in the front of the line. Irritating to say the least! Last year, we just got in a line at a store or walked in an orderly line from store to store. Once we got away from the Disney Store, the orderly lines started and we just got in the flow of the crowd. The kids got pretty good candy for a mall as well as some silly bandz and a lego key chain.

AJ and Jonathan hand in hand
Ethan getting help from Grandpa
Good bye hugs from AJ
Good bye hugs for Ethan with the paparazzi capturing the moment
I noticed that people were looking at Ethan and smiling. Thomas has never been so cute!
When we got home, the boys had fun dumping out their candy buckets and got to pick out a treat. We have to go through all candy now and take out all the peanut products. Fortunately, my boys are not big candy eaters. They prefer cookies. We always have left over Halloween candy that gets tossed. That's fine with me. Despite the chaos, we will continue trick or treating at the mall until the boys ask to go trick or treating in neighborhoods. Right now, they don't care how they get, they just want to get it. We will avoid freezing outside and getting wet for as many year as we can.
 
Overall, it was a great Halloween filled with firsts. Such a fun weekend. I love being a mom getting to share all these experiences that I loved as a kid with my own kids! I love seeing them smile and having fun.
 
 
-Dina

Friday, October 28, 2011

An Amazing Opportunity

I had the priviledge and honor of participating in a Craniofacial Continual Performance Improvement (CPI) workshop. Each year, the hospital chooses 2 departments to go through this workshop using the Toyota method and 2 parents are included as full participating members. Ashley Peters, Ethan's social worker put my name on the list as a potential participant and that list was given to the Family Centered Care department which includes the two ladies i've been working with for parent advisor stuff, Carol Parry and Jenny Calhoun. Carol came to visit Ethan during his September hospital stay after his surgery and asked me if I would be willing to participte. I accepted and was very excited to do it.

The meeting was held at the Roosevelt campus on a Monday all day and then the following Tuesday until lunch time. I found out the day before the event that the other participating parent was Michelle Short whom I had met over the summer who's son also is named Ethan and has CFM. We were excited to learn about this and I think it eased both of us a little knowing that we would know the other parent.

Bay Sitler (L) one of Ethan's nurses and SheriLynn Grote (R) Ethan's scheduler who has been such a life saver
It was a little intimidating walking into the room for the first time with all those staff members. I didn't know most of them, but I did recognize Dr. Cunningham and Dr. Hopper. Dr. Perkins, and ENT and colleague of Dr. Sie was there too. Dr. Perkins snipped Ethan's frenulum (the skin under his tongue) since Dr. Sie was not available during one of his early surgeries. They were the sponsoring staff members and though I knew that they wanted us to give honest feedback, I had talked to Carol the week before about giving negative feedback even if it included people in the room. She made me feel better about that. Then to open the meeting, we had already been greeted by the two doctors and Dr. Hopper introduced us to the staff which included doctors, administrative people, schedulers, nurses, insurance people, people from other departments that work with Craniofacial and there was even the vice president who was in charge of the clinic. Dr. Hopper announced that they were not looking for kudos during this workshop, but were looking for feedback on what needs to be improved. That was like my ticket to go ahead and share my true feelings. I was completely comfortable after that moment.
We did work as a whole group and as small groups. There was about 20 people there. There was an overview of how the couple of days would work and what the goal was. Then Michelle and I got a chance to share about our children and about our clinic and hospital experiences. From our comments, the team came up with several things that needed improvement both in clinic visits and during surgeries and hospital stays. We also broke up into 3 groups. I ended up in Dr. Cunningham's group which also included SheryLynn and Bay. Each group came up with flow charts and lists or problems and ways to improve throughout the workshop. One of the flow charts was what happens from the time of first visit to Children's through clinics, preops, surgery, and finally discharge. We would start as a big group, talk, come up with a goal for a session, break into small groups, work on the goal or topic, get back together as a big group, share out to the big group on what was worked on in small groups and do it all over again with breaks and a lunch in there. Lunch was provided.
I was a fully involved and functioning member of the group and though still a little intimidating, I really felt like my opinions and feedback were being valued. Dr. Cunningham or others would even ask me from time to time how I felt about something.
On the second day, Michelle and I were going to leave at lunch. We ended up being asked to stay the rest of the day to finish up the workshop. It was wonderful. When the moderators announced that Michelle and I were going to stay for the rest of the workshop, everyone clapped.
At the end of the session, everyone got together and talked about the culmination of all of the work we had done. The last part of the CPI workshop would be a visit from hospital administrators and vice presidents who would come and hear about what we accomplished during the last two days. As we were going through the presentation schedule, the moderators said that someone would need to get up and talk about what was shared by the families. Then she told the group that they had a rare opportunity to have parents share this part to the administration and asked if we would be willing to share. Of course we couldn't say no. Everyone was really encouraging. Michelle and I got a half hour to play out what we were going to say. I would talk about what currently happens at the clinic and hospital from a family perspective and she would share about what we hope to experience by the end of the 5 years from a family perspective. We both helped eachother come up with bullet points and staff kept coming up and checking in on us to see if we needed any help. We ran our speeches by some of the staff and they were very positive about what we had come up with. I sat next to Dr. Cunningham every time we sat in a big group both days and he was always leaning over to me to explain any terminology I might not understand, which was helpful and he was also very encouraging while we prepared for our presentations. I was all of a sudden really nervous, but realized what a wonderful opportunity this was and that this was probably my one and only chance to share with hospital adminstration about our experiences at Seattle Children's.
I would be the first parent to present and when it came to be my turn, I got excited. I started off by greeting everyone, thanking them for letting me present, and then telling them how wonderful the Craniofacial department was. Then I said that there was need for improvement, however, and here are some things we currently experience. The biggest problems I presented were wait times in clinic between doctors, the long discharge process and pharmacy backlog, and how many times parents have to retell stories to different people. I got a laugh from the administrators when I told them that sometimes we felt like we were being held hostage in the clinic because we would need to use the restroom or get food but we didn't want to leave the room in fear that we would miss the doctor since we never knew when the next provider would come. I felt like my presentation went really well. At the end, the administrators were asked to share what they had learned about our work and one of them thanked me for my humor in presenting. Several others thank us for partipating and giving of our time and a couple came over and thanked us in person. Everyone seemed happy about the presentation and many of them came over and thanked me too. It felt so good. What an opportunity. I rode on cloud nine the rest of the week practically.
The goals we ended up developing were 5 year goals and would slowly be implemented over those 5 years. I am so excited to see these improvements implemented over the next few years, especially knowing that I had a hand in them. What an honor and priviledge to take part in this event! Dr. Hopper handed us a thank you cards signed by all the staff there and I was continually thanked throughout the event. The highlight was definately getting the once in a lifetime opportunity to present to the hospital administration. I hope I made an impression on them and was able to get my points across intelligently and succinctly.
-Dina

Thursday, October 27, 2011

Oxygen Home Study


Yesterday, a respiratory therapist from Children's Home Care Services came over to bring us an oximeter monitor and to show me how to use it. She spent about an hour explaining to me what this test was all about and why we were doing it. Then she spent the rest of the time training me on how to use the machine. When Ethan fell asleep, I was to put the probe on his toe or foot (the probe that usually goes on his toe and emits a red light in the hospital). This oximeter machine would measure Ethan's oxygen saturation level as he slept. I put the probe on him as soon as I got home from soccer, around 11:30pm. I have to change the site every 4 hours since he could get a blister if the probe is left on too long. I'm not sure how it would give him a blister though. He actually slept pretty well last night. I was a little worried because she said the machine would alarm if he moved around too much because the movement might effect the machines readings, but it never did. The machine was only set to alarm if his sat level dropped below 90. The heart rating alarm was turned off. He woke up around 4:00 am and I changed the site at that time and he slept until about 8:00 am. At that time, the machine went off and I looked at it only to realize it wasn't reading anything. I looked over at Ethan and he was holding the probe in his hand. He had pulled it off as soon as he woke up.
If this test turns out well, then we will be able to take Ethan off of oxygen at night and it could be a possible indication of how well his next sleep study would go, although the oximeter machine doesn't test his CO2 levels, which is one thing that indicates sleep apnea and the fact that he stopped breathing.


-Dina

Wednesday, October 19, 2011

Visiting with Lightening McQueen and Friends

State Farm Insurance has a touring Cars 2 show and it came to Alderwood Mall. State Farm got the rights to the characters and made a Cars 2 insurance commercial, which happened to coincide with the release of the movie Cars 2. The first day we went, the line was pretty long, but it fortunately moved pretty quickly. There was a table where each person was given a souvenier bag with a coloring book and all the swag could go in there. The next table had a Plinko board where kids could drop a disk in and it would bounce off each peg and into one of several holes where you could win either a mood pencil that changed colors when held, a Cars 2 bookmark, a sticker or some crayons. The next table had a spinning wheel where each kid could win a bigger prize like a beach towel, atlas or bag tag. Then we walked by a table that had magnets and key chains of Holly Shiftwell, Finn McMissile, McQueen, and Mater. We were able to take one of each. The most exciting station had the Cars. Each car had a photographer. They boys stood together in front of each car and got their picture taken. Bob joined us on the first day we went. The final station had big picture of the cars and a screen with game on it. This first day, Bob joined us from work. Both the pictures we took with our camera and the professional ones with Lightning McQueen didn't really turn out, which was a little disappointing. We got a number and got the pictures digitally from the State Farm website. Of course you had to answer a few questions from State Farm before retrieving them.

The next day, we told Eden's mom about the tour and told them if they wanted to go we would join them. I thought we could go again and try for different prizes as well as hopefully get some better pictures. They ended up joining us at Alderwood, but this time the line was ridiculously long. I guess I should have expected it since is was the last day of the tour here. The kids were actually well behaved in line. Jonathan and Eden amused each other. Ethan sat in the stroller most of the time and Jordan stayed with Pamela (Eden's mom). When we got to the fountain, the kids enjoyed looking at it and had to throw in a penny of course. We also got to answer a trivia question about Cars and got stickers and a ticket to spin the Disney radio prize wheel. The difference between the first day and the second day was that the first day everyone got to spin the big prize wheel. The second day, only one person per family was allowed to spin it. The person actually thought that Pamela and I were part of the same family and I had to tell him that it was two separate families so they could spin the wheel too. It's interesting to me that some people assume that all Asians look alike or must be family if they are together. This is not the first time something like this has happened. The first day both boys got bag tags, but the second day we got an Atlas. We also got a bunch of mood pencils. At the magnet/key chain table, the workers were being much stricter about only taking one magnet or key chain. I guess they didn't want to run out of stock. We also got a better picture with McQueen this time and one with all the kids. Well worth the trip! This time Bob was unable to join us. After the picture station, Eden's family took off and the boys and I walked around and looked at the back of the Cars characters again. Then they played the bean bag toss game at the WSDOT Good To Go pass table and got some stuff. We also went to the Disney radio table and spun their prize wheel. We got a Cars matching game and some coloring pages.
Spinning the prize wheel
It's Lightning McQueen
Another prize table
Smile boys
The view from the back
Up close and personal with McQueen
Eden and Jordan joined us
Up close and personal with Mater
Disney radio prize wheel
WSDOT bean bag toss
Plinko prize board
Almost there. Magnet and key chain table
Ligthning McQueen, Finn McMissile, and Mater
Souvenier bag table with a coloring book inside
The tour truck outside. Can the cars really fit in there?
Waiting in line with Eden
Pals
Side view
The official photographs from the event. These are the best of the bunch. Since we went twice, we had several pictures to choose from.






 
What a great event this was. The boys had a lot of fun both days and absolutely loved seeing life size versions of the Cars characters.
 
 
-Dina